Helen is feeling as though she is being taken for Granted. That would lead me to believe that she needs a different type of attention from me, but how to change? To what? Less Physical… What does she enjoy? Respect, Perhaps gifts? Service (backrubs)
Okay [taken for granted] does that support that she notices my liking of other people? (Namely Cori)
Sexual desires: Words of affirmation: Quality time: Receiving Gifts: Acts of Service
Sexual Desires:
Yes I have ‘sexual desires.’ Are they necessary? I don’t know. I do have a lot of physical experiences under my belt. Most girls I seem to get some sort of action from. With guy friends: Eli, yes, physical. Tommy, no not so much. It seems that a majority of the time I am not so physical (like at UAS), but that there is also a lot of times where the physical happens quickly and often (Nicole, Holly, Carrie, etc.). There are also times where I notice touch because it is out of the norm: Joe S and Shane. Not bad, just unusual.
Yes I enjoy words of affirmation… I can’t really think of much in my past that would indicate the warm fuzzy feeling. I do like to be recognized for the things that I accomplish and do. If it is sincere and well placed, than it is certainly something that I like. I don’t know that I feel unloved though if I go without it. I think there is a large part of me that gives myself that type of appreciation. Perhaps that is cause for the need of it. I do recognize that I am excited when I receive positive feedback from Helen, or Bill or anyone for that matter. I would perceive that sometimes I don’t appear to admit it though. I, at this point, cannot tell if that is a good thing or not.